The Modern Housewife
Today's Educated Women Return to the Kitchen
LISA MARIE BASILE
Issue date: 2/28/07 Section: Features
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There are myriad websites that glorify the idea of a 'retro-housewife," a concept much different than the wives who slaved in the kitchen during the 1950s. According to Brocantehome.com, a website that embraces staying at home, "The modern housewife's lifestyle is a show of respect - respect for ourselves and others. Housewives dress each morning just as if they're going to an outside job because keeping house and caring for families is a job. It's a serious job."
While cleaning and cooking is indeed serious work to the women with the job, feminists find this act almost retrograde; they support striking a balance. Feminists stress the idea that choosing a housewife lifestyle is a choice, but gaining an education should be a main priority and aspiration - in addition to marriage and children.
On the site retro-housewife.com, a feminist contributing writer said, "I very strongly believe in equity in relationships. [I would never accept a marriage] where I get excitement out of new cleaning products or recipes."
According to a recent study entitled "Gender Equity in Higher Education: 2006," which was conducted by the American Council on Education (ACE) and published on WomenInHigherEducation.com, females made up 58 percent of undergraduates in 2003 - 2004. Of the 40 percent of those undergraduates who were 25 or older, women have made up 62 percent since 2000. Jacqueline E. King, author of the ACE study, said 'Overall women are now 57 percent of all college students."
Many women who actively pursue education ultimately go on to lead to a career-oriented life, but the housewife movement hasn't dissipated. Many women keep jobs while being a homemaker or obtain degrees and return to the kitchen.
"I think some women really want an education and value it, but some just go through the motions and end up getting married," said sophomore and women's and gender studies major Jennifer Garvey. "Women have come so far to get to where we are now; it's so ridiculous to get a degree and sit home and vacuum."


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April Harris
posted 3/02/07 @ 6:57 AM EST
As founder of www.21stcenturyhousewife.com I believe that housewives are a vital component of our post modern society and should feel valued both by themselves and by society as a whole. (Continued…)
Lisa Marie Basile
posted 3/02/07 @ 7:09 PM EST
A respectful response...
I want to note that the last paragraph was edited--- to me, it seems to take on a bit more tolerance than my original notion--- that housewifery is not necessarily something to be proud of, regardless of how hard one works. (Continued…)
April Harris
posted 3/03/07 @ 5:43 PM EST
Housewifery and childcare are actually two separate issues. The nurturing of children needs complete partnership between husband and wife - as does the care of the home if both are working outside of it. (Continued…)
Michelle Papandria
posted 1/04/08 @ 11:32 AM EST
I'm quite disappointed with the author's perception of housewives and women's roles. I believe I'm more disappointed in how indignant the Ms. Basile is in her beliefs, skewed or not. (Continued…)
Lisa M. B
posted 1/07/08 @ 10:10 PM EST
Hi Michelle,
I'm sorry you feel I am indignant. I would not say I find "extreme displeasure" in the notion of being a housewife. Rather, I find displeasure in the idea that gender roles must establish whether or not a women should be in the household or the workplace working. (Continued…)
GMAT
posted 1/11/08 @ 12:01 PM EST
Freedom of choice is key. Today unlike in any earlier period women have a variety of choices. Nothing should ever be forced by situation or circumstance on a woman. (Continued…)
Whirlpool Parts
posted 2/24/09 @ 12:55 PM EST
The modern housewife nowadays is awful. I don't know where did you get this idea from, but one thing is for sure. The women aren't interested in creating a family and having a child. (Continued…)
Accounting Homework
posted 6/20/09 @ 4:29 PM EST
I really like it when the modern wife is educated as well as earning and supporting the family. Thats graet !!
JW
posted 7/14/09 @ 7:26 AM EST
Being a housewife may not be such a big issue if today's housewife were actually that. Women who keep immacualte homes, cook every meal from scratch , raise childern, sew clothes, iron etc. (Continued…)
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